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Is there a child has to stretch her own future? We should think for a moment before answering these simple questions. For too curb its independence with the rope too tight discipline, kuranglah favorable for the development of the child, and vice versa, by removing the loose strings attached to it will plunge themselves.

Each child will absorb the behavior of its immediate environment. And the parents are beginning to mirror itself. For parents who know, they realize that his responsibility was to deliver his children to his own future. If parents provide an environment that arbitrarily me, it just means he has chalked Nokta black on white canvas. "He who planted the seeds of goodness, then he will pick it nevertheless. And for those who planted the seed of evil then he too will feel the consequences. "The word of God in His holy Word.

The children had to be smart to draw his own future. But when it still stuttered in our spell of his life, his parents are handed the canvas and a brush for her lunch tomorrow. Unfortunately, often the child is mistaken in his interpretation. So everywhere they boast of their parents with all the amenities of life. In fact they are so eloquently flatter lineage of his ancestors, the origins of his descendants, the success of the penghulunya up responsibilities negligent in its own future.

A Wachid KH Hasyim been told: We do not just admire the cleverness clever-cleverness, the strengths and successes of those who passed. While we had never tried, so that later we are also admired by the generations after us. The same thing is also stated in a maqalah: "It is not said as a youth to anyone who says this is my father. But boy are those who dare to say here I am. "

Said the sage, we are all born naked and equally from the same seed - the descendants of Adam. Each of us will get according to what we are trying to do, then do not be lulled by the facilities melengakan our selfhood. Do not be flattered because puja intoxicated people around us. Do not get too terninabobokkan by terdayung beautiful ark, because any time we will be able to immerse ourselves into the endless ocean.

Just because a child born as a man with dignity and perpangkat, and always asked for anything they want to be followed and diangankannya, if it would nevertheless facilitated, then later the child will fall fall to the brink of collapse. For such children, it never became an adult because of the problems that demand had lost her own personal responsibility.

What is being enjoyed, not realizing that it was all a result of the efforts of his parents. The children terlenakan and become a big headache for the facility and the respect given by others to his parents. More fatal, if it is children deliberately abusing even the big names of his parents.

So that our children do not already entangled, immediately hantarkan them to be themselves. Cultivate him, that what we get and have, one day it all will not necessarily be able to accomplish and have them anyway. Whether it be the position, facilities, wealth and position. All of that depends on themselves. Others will appreciate them, if our children are also eager to learn respect for others.

Cultivate him also, that the success of the first parents not to come just idly stand idly by. Because they are so keen to work hard, studying, he labors, drenched in the process of struggle, and so concerned about the presence of others. Whether it's for the good of the world, especially in achieving immortality ahirat road.

Most important of all, bekalilah our children with knowledge and morality. That's the greatest advice that will bring them to the island of the future - that perhaps we did not get touched Diki. Give motivation to them, that flap their wings must be wider than the distance terbetang ever taken by his parents. Prophet Muhammad once said,

"Bekalilah children with science. Because they are the generation that will live in a day, the era of that time very, very different from the era you now. "

Every young man, take responsibility for their future. So do not ever given birth to a generation that suwargo nunut neroko katut. For a very clever young man in the use of time, then she would mengenggam future. Believe me, that the future does belong to the young men who liked to fight in the present, if they prefer to laze around on the day, then tomorrow he'll be crushed by the! And Allaah knows best ....... bish-shawab ....!