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Silaturrahmi

What is the difference between the village with the city? To answer this question, Zimbardo made a strange experiment. He put a good car on the road in the Bronx Area, New York. Hood in the open to give the impression the car is damaged. Nobody was there. With the same car in the parking situation in rural Palo Alto, California. From a distance, researchers observed what happened to them. On the first night, a bunch of easy mempreteliti parts in the Bronx area. When the sun rose, it had looked like a car accident victim. Some passers-by saw the car and damaging the glass, doors, windows or whatever is left. Before three days pass, the car has become Area Bronx junkyard. The car is in store in the village had a lucky fate. For several days, no one has touched it. Except when it rains, a nearby resident who ran close to it to protect the engine hood.

Zimbardo, an expert psychologist aggression, it also makes some conclusions. First, the city is more aggressive, more fierce, and more evil than the village. Second, the city is more aggressive because they live in a society that anonymously. In the city, a human into a wolf to another man. In town, people lost to akrapan relationship between human beings. In the language of Islam, in the city, silaturrahmi has been lost.

'' The social scientists', lately, has gained an important discovery, they have found the bad,'' said Montagu and Matson in The Dehumanization of Man. First, scientists do not care about the well and good. They supposedly only care about the truth. Through research Zimbardo and others, they became interested in modern sins. Very unique modern sins. Previously, the sinner is a strange creature, devian, and talk to the devil. Modern sinner is being a normal, average person. Specialists in the heading of the deadly social sins (the seven Deadly Sins), Lyman said the modern sinner "speak the language to watch, impersonal, technical, without feeling and moral ties."

Erich fromm nekrofil mention personality, the personality of a corpse. Such bodies, they've lost the feeling. They can damage and depriving people without those uncomfortable they tortured and killed without pity. They can watch the suffering and violence without any sense of sympathy. Their lives are empty without a sense of life, and since it is without meaning. To overcome the emptiness of life due to numbness, modern humans mancari entertainment. However, the entertainment just makes them become "cheerful robots", in addition to a scary zombie.

Utam cause of all this sin, as Zimbardo said in the case of the city, is the loss of human relationships keakrapan. Human beings are not able to live a healthy life without love and care about. He was not only a political animal or the animal economy. He was also "a loving animal." The most severe stress for humans, said Hans Selye, the failure of interpersonal relationships. Without strut love of the people around him, the son of man will be susceptible to various diseases. Decreased durability. Rapid death took him. More importantly, the development of people who have affection deprifasi is inhibited intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually.

Al-Aqra 'bin Expires meet the Prophet. Kissing putrinya.ia said, "I have ten children. But, no one I kiss. "The Prophet said," may the Lord lift affection of your heart. Who does not love, will not be loved, man yarham la, la yurham. "Prophet Milah sentence that could explain the origin of modern human diseases because they no longer had time to love, they lose their affection. The relationship between a man into a relationship without love. Humans are spiritual alienation from other human beings. Worse yet, he is also alienated from God. In the Qur'an, God says: "not if you turn away (from truth) you will do mischief in the land and sever your ties of affection between you." (Sura 47:22). In qudsti hadith, God said, " I am merciful. I created affection. I gave him my name. Anyone who love to connect. I will connect me with him. Who decides affection, I was going to dump him. "

So, what's the difference between the village and the city? Village people are still in touch with God and Tuhanmasih associated with them. Thus, it is useful once in a while we go home village, going home, to find love again.