Silence was Golden said orphans

In our efforts to grow mature, one of the first steps that we must learn is how to be a capable person in maintaining good oral care as well and correctly. As as the Lord the Messenger of Allah, "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day let speak the truth or shut up.", The hadith narrated by Bukhari.

A. Types of Silence
Indeed it is still very wide range of causes and effects. There is a silence to be golden, but some are quietly even be an issue. It all depends on the intent, means, circumstances, also the condition on themselves and their environment. Here we can see the types of silence:

a. Silent Fool
Which is silent because it does not know what to say. This could be due to lack of knowledge and ketidakmengertiannya, or weakness of understanding and the inability of other reasons. But silence is much better and safer than forcing yourself to speak knowledgeably.

b. Lazy silent
Silence is a kind of bad, because when people still need his words, he was reluctant to speak because they feel are not in the mood, not in the mood or lazy.

c. Proud Silence
It also includes a negative silence because he was being silent on the assumption that people do not talk to him on my level.

d. Silent treacherous
This silence of the bad guys because he's silent to harm others. Silent at the time it takes the testimony of the saving is still a necessary evil.

e. Angry Silence
Silence like this it's good and bad unisex, is much better preserved than cruel words that would muddy the waters further. However, the bad news is that he intends not to seek a solution but to show his wrath, so that this silence may also add to the problem.

f. Silent Key (Mute Off)
The meaning of silence is the virtue of being silent result of thought and reflection that led to the belief that the intention of being ith restraint (silent) then it will become more serious benefits besardibanding to speak.

2. On the virtue of Silence

a. Saving Problems
By selecting an active silence, we will save the words likely to cause problems.

b. Saving of Sin
With active then the chance of slipping quietly into dosapun thinning said, avoid the mistakes that lead to the word of God's wrath.

c. Heart Always Awake and Relax
With silent heart will awake active means of riya, ujub, takabbur or various other liver diseases that will harden and turn off our hearts.

d. More Wisely
With the active means we become silent pesdengar and good observer, is expected to face anything the matter, understanding mendaam so much decision-making was far more wise and prudent.

e. Wisdom Will Appear
Equally important, people are able to hold back the silence is bercahayanya qolbu active, providing new ideas and a brilliant, wisdom guidance of Allah envelop swtakan liver, oral, as well as attitudes and behavior.

f. More Authoritative
Without realizing it, the attitude and appearance of people who still is active will cause its own authority. People will be more reluctant to play or underestimated.

In addition, active silence was an attempt to refrain from some things, such as:

A. Silence of the word lie
2. Diamdari words in vain
3. Silence of spontaneous comments and remarks
4. Silence of the word excessive
5. Silence of complaints
6. Silence of the intention riya and ujub
7. Silence of the words that hurt
8. Silence of the wise guy and a smart ass

Hopefully we become accustomed to telling the truth or shut up. So may God's pleasure until death later, when his death, was allowed to take oral departure of our spirit with the best of the sentence Tauhiid word "laa ilaha illa Allah" saying that delivers peak to heaven. Aamiin