Family Success tips

Tips for Successful Family

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Often we hear people who build a career for years finally sunk by the behavior of his family. There is glorified in his office but covered with disgrace by his own children, there is a brilliant career at the company but eventually faded by the behavior of his wife and son. There is also a popular but not popular among the people in front of his family. There is a respected and revered by the children in his neighborhood but instead abused his own wife, so we need all seriousness to arrange appropriate strategies, in order to achieve success is really essential. Do not let our success pseudoscience. Feel successful when it fails, feel noble but humble, laudable though feel bad, feel intelligent while stupid, was fooled!

The cause of the failure of one of them:

* Because he never had sufficient time
to correct himself. Some people are too busy with the office, out of his affairs as a result he lost a solid foundation. Because people do not mean it makes the family as an essential basis for success.

* Some people just take care of the family with the rest of the time, the rest of the mind, the remaining power, the rest of the attention, the rest of the feelings, the consequences like a time bomb. Although a lot of money but poor in heart. Although a higher rank but low in family circumstances.

Therefore, if we want to be successful, the absolute very serious for us to establish the family as the base (base), we must make our families become the basis of peace of the soul. Father home from work so tired have to miss his home into an oasis of tranquility. Children come home from school must miss it safe at home. Wife as well. Make our home into an oasis of tranquility, serenity, comfort, so the father, mother and child are both happy and comfortable living at home.

In order for our homes become a source of peace, it needs to be pursued:

# Make our home as a house that was always close to God Almighty, which in it filled with worship activities; prayers, recitations of the Quran and continuously used to glorify the religion of Allah, with the power of faith, worship and pious deeds are good, then the house guaranteed to be a source of tranquility.

# The whole house father, mother and child must have an agreement to manage the behavior, so that it can to keep myself from other family members feel safe and not threatened to stay in the house, there must be agreement among family members how the house was not until it becomes a hell.

# Our homes should be "Domestic Science" Father, Mother and child after leaving the house, then came home with knowledge and experience from the outside, entered the family home to discuss in the forums; exchange their experiences, exchange knowledge, complement each other so that a synergy of science. When he came out again from the house there was an increase kelimuan, insights and ways of thinking due to the input collected from the outside by all members of the family, cultivated in the house, out of the house is getting full.

# The house must be "self cleaning house" because no one of the safest correcting ourselves without risk unless a member of our family. If we corrected out risk terpermalukan, disgrace tersebarkan but when corrected by his wife, children and their husbands are blood related, they would be clothes with each other. Therefore, anyone who wants to continue to be a qualified person, the house must be a house which we agree mutually to clean the whole family. Out a lot of mistakes and shortcomings, go home together to correct each other so that out of the house, we can know our shortcomings without having to hurt and scarred
because the family is correct.

# Our homes have become centers of regeneration so that the Father-Mother for a living, knowledge, experience to provide the best insight to our children so that the quality of children or other people who are at home we both biological children, foster children or people who help out at home, anyone would improve its quality. When we die, then we have a better birth generations.

Labor, time and mind to give birth to pump more generations of quality, was born later cadres better leader. This is a household whose responsibilities are not only the household but on later generations as well as for the environment as a successful family tips