Key Life Success by orphans

"If Allah helps you, then there are people who can beat you ..." (Q. S Ali Imran (3): 160)

How do we understand the meaning of life success? Where to start when we want to be fighting for?

It seems not too wrong when there are people who have made it through higher education, even graduate abroad, and considers himself a success. It may also be someone who failed in the formal education seeked a dozen years ago, but now dare to pat his chest because it believes that it has achieved success. Why is that? Because, he has chosen entrepreneurial world, and strive tirelessly, so mewujudlah all fruit was toil in dozens of large companies are profitable.

A father on the day his parents smiled with satisfaction for having succeeded in paddling ark household peaceful and happy, while her children she had driven to the gates of the horizon of the success of independent living. A kiai or preachers are also grateful for the success of his life trying when millions of people has become a congregation of faithful and left it as a role model, while the pesantren always dipenuh sesaki thousands of students.

In short, it is everyone's right to decide for themselves from the standpoint of where he saw life success. However, from the perspective of what a Muslim should be able to view himself as someone who has achieved success in the affairs of his world alive?

Building a foundation of our expectations, especially the orphans
If we want to build a house, then that needs to first be made and strengthened the foundation. Because, the foundation is not strong it can be ascertained quickly will make the building even though the walls and the roof collapsed as strong and as good as any made.

It often happens upon a company, for example, which originally has a good performance, so that the forward rapidly, but it was middle of the road loss. In fact, the company is staying one more step towards a successful two. Why so? was a contributing factor is that in it the rampant dishonesty, deception, intrigue and various other kezhaliman.

Not infrequently there appears a successful foster family homes and affluent in material things. The husband successful career at his office, the wife jaunty in the community, while the children had managed to take levels of study up to college, even those already bekerjapun get a good position. But what happens then?

Destroyed when the integrity of a household because of several factors that might be mentally prepared since they did not have time earlier to deal with it. Husband became beside himself with wealth, title, rank and position, so it slipped his loyalty to family neglect. Isteripun become oblivious to his own position, trapped in the prejudices, easily jealous of each other and even become the driving behavior of their husbands in a variety of devious and underhanded. The children no longer find rest because the day-to-day watching a bad example and
ate the property which is not a blessing.

So what should we do to pioneer something good? What a beautiful and impressive if we believe one thing, that there is no real success, except if Allah Almighty to help all our affairs. In other words, if we yearn to reach the ladder of success, then all aspects relating to the dimensions of success itself must rely upon one principle, namely success with and for His help. This is a foundation that can not be strengthened before we establish and enforce mernara ivory success.

Sunnatullah and Inayatullah
The occurrence of sesoang can achieve success or avoid something they were not expecting, it is highly dependent on two things namely sunnatullah and Inayatullah. Sunatullah mean-sunnah sunnah of Allah as embodied in the form of natural law which requires the occurrence of a causal process, thus opening opportunities for engineering by human actions. A student wants to finish his studies on time and with a predicate satisfying. That desire can be achieved when it is determined to serious about learning, preparing physically and his mind in the best
The good, then increase the quantity and quality of learning in such a way that exceeds the levels and learn how to do his colleagues. In the context sunnatullah, so maybe he can achieve what it wanted was hoping.

However, there is a bus that fell into a ravine and killing all its passengers, but a baby survived without the slightest injury. A little boy who fell from the seventh floor of the building turned out okay, but logically fall from the second floor only she could get killed. Conversely, students who have been earnestly sought, could have been a total failure just because God ordained before he was seriously ill during final exams study, for example. All that is impossible according to human reason at all nothing is impossible when Inayatullah or the help of God has come down.

Similarly, if we endeavor to do business only rely on reason and ability alone, then it is very likely to get success because after all prerequisites have been honor sunnatullah. However, the plan would not people do not necessarily always the same with God's plan. And is there a man who knows exactly what is His plan for man? Okay we are fighting it out because that way anyway heathens get success. However, if it turns out he wants other then what do we want? want to be disappointed? disappointment did not change anything. Moreover, disappointed that arise because of our hearts no other desire is God's plan is always the same with our plans. Though he is critical of all events for only He is All-Knowing wisdom behind every event.

Engineering Self
What are the keys? The key is if we want to live successfully in the world, so do not just rush to engineer themselves and the circumstances in order Dhahir endeavor alone, but also rekayasalah ourselves worthy to be helped by God. Dhahir efforts will confront us with two options, namely the achievement of what we yearn for - because of factors sunnatullah earlier - but also not impossible that will lead to another failure if Allah wills.

Different if it diseiringkan Dhahir efforts with spiritual endeavor. Begin with the basic intention of the true and sincere worship purely for the sake of Allah. Sought the right way, high seriousness, the exact sciences as needed, honest, straight, not abusive to others and not easy to despair.

Always hang up just to please Him alone, as he brushed off completely from hope to the creature. Pleaded with all our hearts to Him to be if anything that was diikhtiarkan it could bring serious benefits for himself mapun for others, would he deign to help ease all our affairs. And do not forget to submit fully to Him all the final results of the Supreme Essence of determinants of all events.

If God had helped, then who can hinder Him for help? Although joining the jinn and humans to block the rescue of a servant of God revealed His will never ever blocked because he was obliged to help His servants who believe.

"If Allah helps you, then there are people who can beat you. If God lets you (do not give help) then who the hell was able to help you (besides) from Allah after that? A man ought to Allah believers put their trust "(Surah Al 'Imran (3): 160).

Hopefully we can all find the key to success is advance our foster children were orphaned human light ridlo may God bless us all Amiinnn